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Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Dealing with People



Dealing with People

Everyone has their own way of dealing with peoples. People are different. That’s why the world has been such a wonderful place so far. So everyone has their own way of dealing with people. It can be different, and it should be different. Some people are annoying. Always try to point-out some once error without correcting there. I have a good friend who always does that. He is a very good person. But he has that bad quality.

I feel so different about people after I lost my mother. I even use to fight with her even for small things. Not big fights. But I really understand that we are living in this world few years. Within those years you must love your love once as much as you can. Nobody knows how long we are going to live.

So don’t fight with others, don’t hate others. Just try to understand why he/she is acting like this, and then it will be easy to deal with people…

Monday, June 10, 2013

Lost my mom and world feels so empty now.



Lost my mom and world feels so empty now.

I lost my mom 2 weeks ago, and despite so many people showing concern and love, I can't help but feel that the world is a much empty place now. The woman who loved me more than anyone in this world, is gone, and I can't imagine ever being happy again, knowing that we'll never laugh together again, and that I'll never experience her soothing words and calming presence.

People tell me it will get better, and at the same time they'll say that I'll never be ok with my mom being gone. That years from now it will still be painful. That makes it hurt even more.

People also tell me that the grief will get worse in the coming weeks and months. I can't quite fathom that.

How can I help myself heal? It feels tragic, even though she lived a full life. I just feel like I need a mother's love, but my mother is no longer here to help me when I need her most